Coffee Cake- The Best Breakfast Ever.

Coffee cake is one of my favorite breakfast quick breads. I didn’t have time to whip up a batch, but if you are looking for a tried and true recipe, check out my post here. https://hewesfamilyfun.com/2021/02/10/simple-frugal-recipe-coffee-cake/

If you’ve got a boxed coffee cake mix (Bob’s Red Mill makes a great one) and want it to taste a little more scratch-made, check out my tips here for improving boxed cake mixes.  

And if you are looking for some coffee to go with your cake, here are some easy coffee shop-style recipes you can make at home without any fancy equipment.  

And if you want your coffee on the go, or any drinks for that matter, check out the Panera Unlimited Sips Club. New subscribers who sign up for a monthly Unlimited Sip Club subscription through May 31, 2026 and enter promo code SIP3 at checkout will receive three months of an Unlimited Sip Club monthly subscription for $3/month plus tax. Remember to use Promo code: SIP3 at checkout!

May is Mental Health Month: Free Mental Health Resources in California

This is a heavy topic. If you are not in the headspace to read this, please scroll on.

May is Mental Health Awareness Month. Mental health care is important to everyone, regardless of age or financial situation. Depending on your health insurance situation, most insurance plans provide coverage for mental health services.

In California, BrightLife offers free behavior coaching to kids. Learn more here. 

If you are an educator, Headspace offers a free subscription for educators.

If you do not have health insurance or cannot afford your mental health copays, there is still help out there for you.

Crisis Support:

If you and your family are low-income, you may be eligible for Medi-Cal (Medicaid in California). To learn more about Medi-Cal eligibility, visit the DHCS website here. 

 

5/10/2026 Weekly Meal Plan!

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May is a busy month for us, so it’s important to me that I plan out our meals on Sunday nights for the week.

To keep my grocery budget down, I shop at Aldi (using Instacart, I wrote about how to do it here), our local Grocery Outlet, and use cashback rebates that offer a lot of 100% back (I wrote a post about some of my favorite apps here).

I skipped a grocery trip this week- We have plenty of food, and we had a  Yasukochi Family Farms CSA box subscription drop off last Monday and have plenty of fruit and veg to get us through this week. I did a quick grocery inventory on Saturday morning to make sure we’d be ok.

Breakfast: The kids tend to eat cereal, a bagel, or an MBS (Mrs. Bear Special) each morning for breakfast. I usually have a proffee and a slice of toast with goat cheese and spicy honey.

Lunch: Monday through Friday, I pack my own and the kids’ lunches. I bring 5 lunches to work on Monday and stash them in the fridge. I pack the kids’ lunches each night before bed, except for the cold stuff and ice pack- those I put in when I get up in the morning. This week, my lunch is a fridge clean-out. I saw a friend from out of town this weekend, and I have a lot of leftovers from cooking, plus some soup my mom gave me.

Dinner: This week, dinners are pretty simple. We have busy days, so I want to spend as much time as possible with the kids. If one of the kids ends up not liking something, they can have a sandwich, a fruit, and a homemade smoothie.

This week’s available fresh fruits are: Gala Apples, cherries, and strawberries.

  • Sunday: Leftovers (We had a lot this week)
  • Monday: Cheesy Brats, chips, fruit, and smoothies
  • Tuesday: Breakfast for dinner (bacon and eggs)

  • Wednesday: Breakfast for Dinner (I’m teaching that night)

  • Thursday: Quesadillas, beans/rice, fruit

  • Friday: Takeout night!
  • Saturday: Leftover Palooza and whatever leftover fruit is hanging around.

05/09/2026 Weekend Freebies and Deals!

I’ve spent time this week getting ready for a family trip at the end of the month. All sorts of list-making, planning, and washing of camping bedding.

I  updated my birthday freebies for 2026- You can find the post here. The list mostly offers what you can find in Southern California.

If you live outside Southern California, check out this list: Free Birthday Stuff: Get The Best 100+ Freebies on Your Birthday!

For free food resources, please refer to my comprehensive list, available here.  It is focused on San Diego County, but additional resources are available outside my area.

Freebies:

FREE Bottle of Lactaid Creamer at Publix
Easy Ways To Get Free Men’s Cologne Samples
FREE Royal Canin Feline Health Nutrition Aging 11+ Chatterbox Kit
Get Free Samples by Mail: List of Legitimate Freebies & Free Samples From Brand Name Companies
FREE $25 to Spend on Fragrance at Sephora After Cash Back
FREE Sample of OGX ProGrowth + Peptide Shampoo & Conditioner
FREE Car Wash for Community Heroes at GO Car Wash
FREE $35 to Spend at Walmart After Cash Back
FREE Sample of T.N. Dickinson’s Witch Hazel Medicated Cooling Foam
FREE Saffron Road Meal Coupon for Roadies Members
We Rounded Up The Best Free Samples for Men: Check Them Out
Mother’s Day Freebies & Deals RoundUp
Claim Cash in the $750,000 Sealy Bedding Products Class Action Settlement
FREE Great Minds Think Differently Poster
FREE Order of Pita Chips at CAVA
FREE Sample of Ex Nihilo Lust in Paradise Extrait de Parfum
FREE Pollinator Flower Seed Packet from National Geographic
FREE Sandwich During Armed Forces Week at Mission BBQ
FREE Sol de Janeiro Mini Body Cream Duo at Ulta After Cash Back
FREE DocuPet Tag + FREE Shipping
FREE Wendy’s Merch Every Wednesday
FREE Chocolate Dipped Fruit Cone at Edible
FREE 8×10 Photo Print at Walgreens
FREE Movie Ticket to The Wizard of the Kremlin
FREE Garden Basket Build Event for Kids at Lowe’s
Free Full-Size Products from Home Tester Club
FREE Full-Size Hair Gloss or Anti-Frizz Spray
These Are the Best Websites to Get Free Samples & Freebies
FREE 3 lb. Bag of Cuties at Kroger

 

Deals:

New Bath & Body Works Coupon Policy: What You Need to Know
High-Speed Ionic Hair Dryer ONLY $79.99 (Reg $230)
Loungefly Pochacco & Friends Mini Backpack ONLY $29.94 (Reg $50)
Outdoor Patio Umbrella Shade with Auto Tilt ONLY $20 at Walmart
5 Tips to Find the Cheapest Oil Change + Get Oil Change Coupons and Savings
lululemon Belt Bags From $29 + Free Shipping!
Candle Warmer Lamp ONLY $10.49 on Amazon (Reg $25)
Kate Spade Staci Mini Crossbody ONLY $59 (Reg $279)
Prime Members Save 20¢ Per Gallon on Gas – Every Friday!
Home Office Computer Desk with Drawers ONLY $35.98 (Reg $60)
Coach Perfumes as low as $11.99 at Walmart
Luggage Sale at Macy’s Up to 74% Off – Prices From $79.99
10 Bogg Bag Dupes on Amazon That Are Just as Great as the Real Bogg Bag
Mother’s Day Gifts Under $25 at Belk + Free Store Pickup!
Mother’s Day Gifts Under $25 at Walmart + Free Store Pickup
Kohl’s Mother’s Day Gifts Under $25 + Free Store Pickup

2026-Summer Movies for Kids on the Cheap!

One of the kid’s favorite summer activities is to hit up the local theater for a showing of one of their favorite movies.

Big buckets of popcorn, snuck in candy (shhhh), and a drink, and they are ready for 2 hours of fun in the Air Conditioning.

 

Some of the “Usual suspects” have not updated their summer movie programs for 2026. As soon as we get more info, I’ll update.

Landmark Theatres has Family Friendly Films starting June 12, 2026. There are no locations in San Diego County, but there are some in Southern California.

Regal Summer Movie Express usually offers tickets for $2 on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, featuring summer movies the whole family will enjoy.

Summer Movie Clubhouse at Cinemark starts June 1, 2026. Bring the kids and enjoy exciting family-friendly big-screen entertainment for just $1.75 (plus taxes) per ticket for each movie.

Lots of smaller theatre chains have also joined this bandwagon! Marcus TheatresMegaPlex, Epic Theatres are just a few. These theatres do not have locations in California.

Theatre chains that have not published their schedules yet, but in the past have had family/kids movies in the summer:

AMC Theatres has previously had a Summer Movie Camp with tickets starting at $3.oo/each at the box office.

Reading Cinemas usually has the Reel Kids program, with ticket prices reduced to $2/ticket!

UltraStar Cinemas doesn’t have anything posted yet, but they do offer discounts on tickets and popcorn on Thursdays year-round.

Talk Back: What summer movies are you looking forward to seeing?

5/4/26 Weekly Meal Plan

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May is a busy month for us, so it’s important to me that I plan out our meals on Sunday nights for the week.

To keep my grocery budget down, I shop at Aldi (using Instacart, I wrote about how to do it here), our local Grocery Outlet, and use cashback rebates that offer a lot of 100% back (I wrote a post about some of my favorite apps here).

I skipped a grocery trip this week- We have plenty of food, and we had a  Yasukochi Family Farms CSA box subscription drop off last Monday and have plenty of fruit and veg to get us through this week. I did a quick grocery inventory on Saturday morning to make sure we’d be ok.

Breakfast: The kids tend to eat cereal, a bagel, or an MBS (Mrs. Bear Special) each morning for breakfast. I usually have a proffee and a slice of toast with goat cheese and spicy honey.

Lunch: M-F I pack myself and the kids’ lunches. I bring 5 lunches to work on Monday and stash them in the fridge. I pack the kids’ lunches each night before bed, except for the cold stuff and ice pack- those I put in when I get up in the morning. This week, my lunch is fridge and freezer clean out leftovers.

Dinner: This week, dinners are pretty simple. We have busy days, so I want to spend as much time as possible with the kids. If one of the kids ends up not liking something, they can have a sandwich or a fruit and a homemade smoothie.

This week’s available fresh fruits are: Apples (3 kinds), oranges, and bananas.

  • Sunday:  Italian Night.
  • Monday: Chicken and Veggies
  • Tuesday: Tortellini Soup, Salad, and Bread

  • Wednesday: Breakfast for Dinner (I’m teaching that night)

  • Thursday: Vegetarian chili, bread, and salad

  • Friday: Takeout night!
  • Saturday: Leftover Palooza and whatever leftover fruit is hanging around.

May and June Upcoming JCP Kid’s Craft Events!

JCPenney hosts a fun craft event in-store for kids on the second Saturday of each month.  They are easy for kids and a fun, free activity. My kids loved these when they were little.

While you are there, make sure to join their Rewards Program. There are a lot of great benefits, and it’s free to join. I do a lot of our shopping at JCP. They are very size-inclusive, have great prices/sales, and support diversity in the communities in which they are located.

In-store events are only where local mandates allow.  All kids must be accompanied by an adult. More details, including participating JCP locations, can be found here.

On May 9th, from 11 am to noon, kids can make and take their very own Mother’s Day Flower Bouquet Craft.

All materials are provided but are only available while supplies last.

Plus, parents get a free 10% off coupon (and it can be combined with other JCP coupons!).

And moving right along into June…

On June 13th, from 11am to noon, kids can make and take a Super Hero Plaque!

All materials are provided but are only available while supplies last.

Plus, parents get a free 10% off coupon (and it can be combined with other JCP coupons!)

 

The Family Binder: Keeping Important Information Accessible

Previously, I had written about our family binder, but it has been almost 10 years since I put our family binder together, and I figured it was time to update it and write a new post.

You can find my old post here, and a lot has changed in that time.

  • I have two kids!  I have a teenager!
  • Most of my bills are paid via auto debit.
  • I have gone paperless with most of the bills.

I still want to be able to have my life together if there is some sort of emergency. This Binder is “The House is on Fire- Grab this and the kids and the cat!!” type of information. This is one of the things I would grab if there were a natural disaster like a wildfire. It’s part of my Bug Out Bag packing list.

Here are the updated sections that I have in my family binder:

Home information:

  • I have a copy of my homeowners’ insurance policy. The declarations page shows the policy number, the amount of coverage, and contact information for the insurance company in case I need it.
  • Once a year, I print off a mortgage statement which shows all of our information from our mortgage, just in case I need to get a hold of it, but usually I just contact them through their website.
  • One other thing that you will only need in your family binder if you live in a condominium/HOA is a copy of the HOA Master Insurance Policy for your housing group. My mortgage company requests one every year, and when they request one, I am also sent one that I keep one of those in my family binder.
  • Copy of my deed. I have needed it exactly twice in the 10 years. I’ve owned a home, but it is always good to have one and know where it is.
  • The CC&R’s and bylaws for my HOA. Again, it’s not every day that I need these things, but in case of some sort of emergency, I know where they are.
  • The deed to my parking space. Where I live, we have a deeded parking space, and it is our exclusive use area. If someone parks in my parking spot and does not leave when I ask them to, I can have them towed, and the parking space deed is what I show to the tow truck driver when he shows up.

Vehicle Information:

  • The current year’s vehicle registration information. I keep the registration notice that they send us in the mail. I need it when I file the taxes for the next year,
  • The title for each of the cars, and proof of insurance for both of the cars. The declarations page shows the policy number, the amount of coverage, and contact information for the insurance company in case I need it.
  • The Vehicle section is also where I store paperwork regarding work that has been done to our cars that has been covered by a recall, or paperwork for extensive vehicle repairs (usually anything over $1500).

The Important Stuff: This is the paperwork that we need to prove who we are.

Everyone has their own pages in this section. This includes birth certificates, Social Security cards, and passports.

I have copies of our identification cards/driver’s licenses, and copies of school ID cards for each of the kids. This is also where I keep their vaccination cards and printouts from the doctor showing their vaccinations. Because when they were younger, I would frequently forget to take their yellow vaccine cards with me when we went to the pediatrician. In addition to vaccine cards, I also have photocopies of everyone’s insurance cards as well.

Everything Else

Most of the rest of this is kept as a note in my phone, but I also print it out and put it into my family binder about once a year when I update other things like insurance and vehicle registration paperwork.

Utility Companies, including the name/type of the utility company, our account numbers, and their phone number in case I need to call them. For us, it is just water and power. Our HOA dues pay for our trash pickup. But I also have the name and phone number of the garbage company, as well as our HOA contact information in case I need either of those for some reason.

Because we do paperless billing and automatic bill pay every month for the majority of our bills, I do not receive a paper bill, and I do not store copies of our paper bills. That is why I have contact information for everything and account numbers. Most everything we have online access to, such as our utilities and our mortgage statement.

Your family binder should be the thing that you grab if your house is on fire.

As somebody who has lived in Southern California their entire adult life, I have seen a lot of natural disasters, mostly in the form of wildfires, and I know people who have had to evacuate with less than an hour’s notice.

My family binder is a 3 inch three-ring binder, and it has dividers for each section, and most everything is stored in a page protector. Some of the items are three whole punched and directly placed into the binder, like my deed, the rules and regulations, and CC&Rs for our HOA, because those are multi-page documents.

But for things that we need to keep in pristine order, like original birth certificates, baptismal records, and Social Security cards, those go in heavy-duty page protectors.

Meal Kit Round Up and Deals!

I love trying out meal kits; they are a great way to try new recipes with new ingredients that I may not already have on hand. Here are a few of the meal kits that I’ve tried, links to reviews, and any deals or coupon codes I could find.

One of my favorites is still Dream Dinners. Our local location is closed, but there is one in Northern San Diego County that offers pick-ups in La Mesa. I can order online and pick up at a location convenient to me.

 

Overall, my favorite mail-order/delivery meal kit company is Dinnerly.

They have a nice mix of kid-friendly dishes and stuff that is decidedly more “grown-up food”. I wrote a review here. In addition to having a nice mix of dishes to choose from, the other thing I like is that Dinnerly is the first subscription meal kit service to offer $4.49 per serving. My big qualm with meal kits is that the meals can sometimes be upwards of $8-$10/per serving. At that point, you might as well go out for dinner!

 

Gobble has a really great deal. Choose your meals and receive a Gobble box for $36 for 6 meals. I recently ordered this, so we’ll see how it turns out! Here is why I decided to try it:

    • Choose your meals from our diverse weekly menu. Gluten-free, dairy-free, low-carb, & vegetarian options are available.
    • Their team of chefs does all the tedious prep work for you — no more chopping, measuring, or a sink full of dishes
  • Your freshly made 15-minute dinner kits will arrive in a refrigerated box to your doorstep. No commitment. Adjustable to your schedule.

Talk Back: I’d love to hear about any meal kits that you or your family have tried and liked. 

Kids Bowl Free- It’s Back for Summer 2026!

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Kids Bowl Free has been around for years, and it’s a great way to get kids active, even when it’s hot outside. I’m so excited it’s back again.

Kids 2-12 can bowl 2 games for free each day the program is running at participating bowling centers all across the US and Canada. All you pay for is shoe rental- or bring your own if you have them!kidsbowlfree_logo-new-2019.jpg

This program is available all over the US and Canada. The complete list can be found here. Sign up is quick and easy. To get started, register here. If you live in San Diego, the only bowling alley participating is Aztec Lanes.

I encourage everyone to take advantage of this deal! It’s one of our favorite summer activities.