The Family Binder: Keeping Important Information Accessible

Previously, I had written about our family binder, but it has been almost 10 years since I put our family binder together, and I figured it was time to update it and write a new post.

You can find my old post here, and a lot has changed in that time.

  • I have two kids!  I have a teenager!
  • Most of my bills are paid via auto debit.
  • I have gone paperless with most of the bills.

I still want to be able to have my life together if there is some sort of emergency. This Binder is “The House is on Fire- Grab this and the kids and the cat!!” type of information. This is one of the things I would grab if there were a natural disaster like a wildfire. It’s part of my Bug Out Bag packing list.

Here are the updated sections that I have in my family binder:

Home information:

  • I have a copy of my homeowners’ insurance policy. The declarations page shows the policy number, the amount of coverage, and contact information for the insurance company in case I need it.
  • Once a year, I print off a mortgage statement which shows all of our information from our mortgage, just in case I need to get a hold of it, but usually I just contact them through their website.
  • One other thing that you will only need in your family binder if you live in a condominium/HOA is a copy of the HOA Master Insurance Policy for your housing group. My mortgage company requests one every year, and when they request one, I am also sent one that I keep one of those in my family binder.
  • Copy of my deed. I have needed it exactly twice in the 10 years. I’ve owned a home, but it is always good to have one and know where it is.
  • The CC&R’s and bylaws for my HOA. Again, it’s not every day that I need these things, but in case of some sort of emergency, I know where they are.
  • The deed to my parking space. Where I live, we have a deeded parking space, and it is our exclusive use area. If someone parks in my parking spot and does not leave when I ask them to, I can have them towed, and the parking space deed is what I show to the tow truck driver when he shows up.

Vehicle Information:

  • The current year’s vehicle registration information. I keep the registration notice that they send us in the mail. I need it when I file the taxes for the next year,
  • The title for each of the cars, and proof of insurance for both of the cars. The declarations page shows the policy number, the amount of coverage, and contact information for the insurance company in case I need it.
  • The Vehicle section is also where I store paperwork regarding work that has been done to our cars that has been covered by a recall, or paperwork for extensive vehicle repairs (usually anything over $1500).

The Important Stuff: This is the paperwork that we need to prove who we are.

Everyone has their own pages in this section. This includes birth certificates, Social Security cards, and passports.

I have copies of our identification cards/driver’s licenses, and copies of school ID cards for each of the kids. This is also where I keep their vaccination cards and printouts from the doctor showing their vaccinations. Because when they were younger, I would frequently forget to take their yellow vaccine cards with me when we went to the pediatrician. In addition to vaccine cards, I also have photocopies of everyone’s insurance cards as well.

Everything Else

Most of the rest of this is kept as a note in my phone, but I also print it out and put it into my family binder about once a year when I update other things like insurance and vehicle registration paperwork.

Utility Companies, including the name/type of the utility company, our account numbers, and their phone number in case I need to call them. For us, it is just water and power. Our HOA dues pay for our trash pickup. But I also have the name and phone number of the garbage company, as well as our HOA contact information in case I need either of those for some reason.

Because we do paperless billing and automatic bill pay every month for the majority of our bills, I do not receive a paper bill, and I do not store copies of our paper bills. That is why I have contact information for everything and account numbers. Most everything we have online access to, such as our utilities and our mortgage statement.

Your family binder should be the thing that you grab if your house is on fire.

As somebody who has lived in Southern California their entire adult life, I have seen a lot of natural disasters, mostly in the form of wildfires, and I know people who have had to evacuate with less than an hour’s notice.

My family binder is a 3 inch three-ring binder, and it has dividers for each section, and most everything is stored in a page protector. Some of the items are three whole punched and directly placed into the binder, like my deed, the rules and regulations, and CC&Rs for our HOA, because those are multi-page documents.

But for things that we need to keep in pristine order, like original birth certificates, baptismal records, and Social Security cards, those go in heavy-duty page protectors.

5/1/2026 Friday Freebies and Deals!

This week has been wild. I’ll post a separate update tonight, but needless to say, I am so glad it’s Friday.

I  updated my birthday freebies for 2026- You can find the post here. The list mostly offers what you can find in Southern California.

If you live outside Southern California, check out this list: Free Birthday Stuff: Get The Best 100+ Freebies on Your Birthday!

For free food resources, please refer to my comprehensive list, available here.  It is focused on San Diego County, but additional resources are available outside my area.

Freebies:

FREE Pokemon Button, Photos & More at Target
FREE Sample of Ralphs Club New York Eau De Parfum
FREE Movie Tickets to I Love Boosters
FREE John Frieda Mousse, Shampoo & Conditioner Bundle, or Frizz Control Serum
FREE Blue Square Pin
FREE Hers Hair Care Products
FREE Service of Palm Beach Tan
Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library – FREE Kids Book Every Month
FREE Breakfast for Teachers at Whataburger on May 7th
FREE Mother’s Day Flower Bouquet Craft Kit at JCPenney
2026 National Pretzel Day Freebies and Deals
Get Your Free Teeth Whitening Samples: A Brighter Smile Awaits
Score a Free Babylist Hello Baby Box Filled with Samples & Full Sized Products
Free Kids’ Magazines: A Gateway to Fun and Learning
FREE Sample of SHEBA Bisque or Purée Cat Treats
FREE Movie Ticket to The Story of Everything
FREE Sample of Love, Nala Cat Food
FREE Febreze Fabric Refresher at Target
FREE Sample of Breathe Right Extra Strength Strips
FREE Ensure Max Protein Shake After Walmart Cash
FREE Petco Mother’s Day Photos + Blue Buffalo Pet Food Samples
FREE Sub at Firehouse Subs for Those Named Mike, Michael, Miguel, Michelle & More
FREE Bvlgari Eau Perfumee The Imperial Eau de Toilette Fragrance Sample
$35 Worth of FREE Books with First Book Marketplace
FREE Reward Every Week with Panda Express Wok Wednesday
FREE LEGO Star Wars Starfighter Build Event
FREE Haircut at Sport Clips If You Have a Mullet
FREE $30 to Spend on Adidas After Cash Back
FREE Sample of Pink Zebra Fragranced Wax Melts
FREE Samples of SheaMoisture Curl Stretch Collection
FREE Summer Fridays Sweet Pink Duo Lip Butter Balm at Sephora After Cash Back
How to Get Free Beauty Samples Without Spending a Dime
FREE Movie Tickets to Young Washington
FREE Pack of Stonyfield YoBaby Multipack Cups or Pouches
FREE Jackson’s Summer Snacking Party Pack
FREE Fragrance Samples from Macy’s
Get Free Beauty Product Samples With Topbox Circle

 

Deals:

Subway BOGO Deal: Buy 1, Get 1 Footlong Sub – New Subway Coupons for May
Kohl’s Up to 85% Off Clearance Sale is LIVE – Deals Start at $0.72
Prime Members Save 20¢ Per Gallon on Gas – Every Friday!
Kobalt Portable Mini Toolbox ONLY $16.98 at Lowe’s (Reg $22)
11 Things Costco Members Can Get for Free Included In Their Membership
Miracle-Gro Garden Soil On Sale for $2 at Home Depot
The 12 Best Stanley Cup Dupes You Can Buy Online on a Budget (Durable & Affordable)
Macy’s Jewelry up to 70% Off – Prices as low as $29 | Mother’s Day Gif Ideas!
The Big One Bath Towels and Pillows for $2.39 at Kohl’
CHI Infra Thermal Care Kit ONLY $17.74 Shipped (Reg $47)
Libman Spin Mop With Bucket ONLY $19.98 (Reg $40)

Q-Insights Online Shopping Study – Pays $125

QI-logoNOslogan.pngQ-insights is another company where I do research groups, focus groups, and online surveys to earn extra money.

They have a lot of stuff in South Orange County and less often in San Diego County. Currently, they are conducting an online study regarding online shopping using your mobile phone.

Who: Looking for people 18 and 65 to participate.

Length: 60-minute online interview: Nationwide

Dates: May 1st through May 14th

Incentive: $125

If you are interested in participating, please fill out the survey here. A recruiter will contact you if you pre-qualify and ask additional screening questions.

Meal Kit Round Up and Deals!

I love trying out meal kits; they are a great way to try new recipes with new ingredients that I may not already have on hand. Here are a few of the meal kits that I’ve tried, links to reviews, and any deals or coupon codes I could find.

One of my favorites is still Dream Dinners. Our local location is closed, but there is one in Northern San Diego County that offers pick-ups in La Mesa. I can order online and pick up at a location convenient to me.

 

Overall, my favorite mail-order/delivery meal kit company is Dinnerly.

They have a nice mix of kid-friendly dishes and stuff that is decidedly more “grown-up food”. I wrote a review here. In addition to having a nice mix of dishes to choose from, the other thing I like is that Dinnerly is the first subscription meal kit service to offer $4.49 per serving. My big qualm with meal kits is that the meals can sometimes be upwards of $8-$10/per serving. At that point, you might as well go out for dinner!

 

Gobble has a really great deal. Choose your meals and receive a Gobble box for $36 for 6 meals. I recently ordered this, so we’ll see how it turns out! Here is why I decided to try it:

    • Choose your meals from our diverse weekly menu. Gluten-free, dairy-free, low-carb, & vegetarian options are available.
    • Their team of chefs does all the tedious prep work for you — no more chopping, measuring, or a sink full of dishes
  • Your freshly made 15-minute dinner kits will arrive in a refrigerated box to your doorstep. No commitment. Adjustable to your schedule.

Talk Back: I’d love to hear about any meal kits that you or your family have tried and liked. 

Kids Bowl Free- It’s Back for Summer 2026!

file0001910298986.jpgLooking for something fun, air-conditioned, and cheap to do this summer with the kids?

Kids Bowl Free has been around for years, and it’s a great way to get kids active, even when it’s hot outside. I’m so excited it’s back again.

Kids 2-12 can bowl 2 games for free each day the program is running at participating bowling centers all across the US and Canada. All you pay for is shoe rental- or bring your own if you have them!kidsbowlfree_logo-new-2019.jpg

This program is available all over the US and Canada. The complete list can be found here. Sign up is quick and easy. To get started, register here. If you live in San Diego, the only bowling alley participating is Aztec Lanes.

I encourage everyone to take advantage of this deal! It’s one of our favorite summer activities.

San Diego Residents! $150 Paid Research Study

Focus Group Connections is a research company located in Southern California. They conduct studies and surveys all over the US.

Focus Group Connection is looking for participants in their upcoming ONLINE research study on the topic of grocery shopping.

When:  May 6th at 5 PM(pst)

Where: Rancho Bernardo area of San Diego, CA.

Length: 90-minute discussion offers you a unique platform to share your valuable insights.

Incentive: $150 for your valuable contributions.

If interested, please fill in the pre-screen survey here.

Please note that not everyone will qualify to participate, and not everyone will receive a callback.

Taylor Research Sleep Habits Study- $125

Taylor Research is a research company based in the San Diego, CA area. I have been involved in their studies for over 15 years.

Frequently, they will send out emails requesting referrals for studies that are hard to fill. This is one of those cases.

  • Study Topic: Sleep Habits
  • Study Type: Individual Interviews
  • Study Location: Online (Nationwide)
  • Target Audience: Adults 18+
  • Available Date(s): April 20th – 30th, 2026
  • Session Duration: 1 hour
  • Reward Amount: $125

To sign up, please complete the form here. In the referral box, enter my name Abby Hewes. If you are selected and participate, I may earn a referral bonus!

Please feel free to share this.

April 2026: Upcoming Free Classes at Michaels!

I love Michaels! Not only do they have great sales and coupons, but they also have free Arts and Crafts classes at many locations. Some classes are for adults, but the majority of classes are hands on classes for kids.

 

Our local location has free classes coming up in April- I’ve signed Ryder up for them. My kids love hands-on crafts!

Did you also know that Michaels has a rewards club? Sign up for Michaels Rewards today and earn $5 in Rewards when you spend $25 or more!

Weekend Freebies and Deals!

I finally updated my birthday freebies for 2026- You can find the post here. The list is mostly offers  that you can find in Southern California.

If you live outside Southern California, check out this list: Free Birthday Stuff: Get The Best 100+ Freebies on Your Birthday!

For free food resources, please refer to my comprehensive list, available here.  It is focused on San Diego County, but additional resources are available outside my area.

Freebies:

FREE Groomer’s Choice Sample Box
FREE Goldback 24K Currency Bill
FREE 5 lbs Shredding at Office Depot OfficeMax
8 Ways to Get Free Books for Kids
FREE Ranch or Spicy Snack Wrap at McDonald’s
2026 National Pretzel Day Freebies and Deals
FREE Japonesque Fingernail Clippers at Walgreens
FREE $25 Purchase at Hobby Lobby After Cash Back
FREE Sample of Pedigree Pouches Dog Food & Drizzlers Savory Sauce
We Rounded Up Our Favorite Free Samples for Women
FREE BBQ Pork, Turkey or Chicken Sandwich for Nurses at Sonny’s BBQ
FREE Stickers, Sample Pouch & More at Target
FREE Medium Sub at Firehouse Subs
FREE Spring Seasonal Collection Donut at Krispy Kreme
Claim Cash in the $87.5 Million Beef Class Action Settlement
FREE Sample of MG Plus Protein Supplements
FREE 60-Day Supply of Broc Shot Capsules
Here’s How to Score FREE or Cheap Photo Prints: 2026
FREE 1-Year Membership to Youth on Course Golfing – 1st 150,000
FREE Fragrance Samples from Macy’s
FREE Hat at Tractor Supply Co.
FREE $25 on Spring Decor at Michaels After Cash Back
FREE Blue Buffalo Wilderness Wild Protein Powered Meals Chatterbox Kit
FREE Sample of L’Oreal Age Perfect Le Duo Serum
FREE Mtn Dew Baja Blast Every Time an MLB Player Hits a 420+ ft Home Run
Get Tons Of Free Stickers Online: Updated Monthly
How I Get Free Samples with Free Shipping
FREE Sample of Pataday Once Daily Relief Eye Allergy Itch Relief
FREE Mini Sheet of Stamps
Free Chick-fil-A: The Chick-fil-A Hacks You Need to Know – Yes, It Includes FREE Chicken!
FREE Sample of OGX ProGrowth + Peptide Shampoo & Conditioner
FREE Sample of Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Body Wash
Claim Cash in the $2.9 Million Tom’s of Maine Toothpaste Class Action Settlement
FREE Full-Size Plain. Urolithin A + Creatine Well-Aging Supplement
FREE Sample of Clive Christian Strange Heavens Out of the Blue Fragrance
FREE Rare Beauty Rare Eau de Parfum Sample

Deals:

Dad Gang Co. Discount Codes – 25% Off, $10 Credit & More
Prime Members Save 20¢ Per Gallon on Gas – Every Friday!
Sephora Savings Event – Up to 20% Off for Rouge Members + Extra 30% Off Sephora Collection
American Tourister Stratum 3.0 Carry-On ONLY $62.99 (Reg $180)
Tom’s of Maine Whitening Toothpaste 3-Pack ONLY $2.99 at Target (Reg $14)
Academy Sports Coupons: New $15 Off $15 Order! Save on Nike, Adidas, Under Armour & More
Best Places To Buy Cheap & Affordable Furniture Online: 2026
Clearance at JCPenney Up to 80% Off – Select Styles From $1.19
TODAY: Old Navy Women’s Tank Tops on Sale for ONLY $3
Lofka Patio Rocking Chairs Set w/ Glass Coffee Table, 3-Piece ONLY $79 (Reg $140)
Roku Streaming Stick HD ONLY $25 (Reg $40)
The Big One Bath Towel ONLY $2.96 at Kohl’s
Fantaslok Plaid Flannel Women’s Shirt ONLY $14 (Reg $24)

Be My Neighbor Day 4/18/2026

Join KPBS for San Diego’s fourth annual Be My Neighbor Day on Saturday, April 18, from 9:00 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. at KPBS on the San Diego State University campus, 5200 Campanile Dr., San Diego, 92182.

Be My Neighbor Day is a free outdoor event for young children and families.

Celebrate what it means to be a community helper, just like Daniel Tiger! Join us to learn how even a small act of service can bring immense joy and make a significant difference.

Celebrate National Volunteer Month and Month of the Military Child with our community neighbors who lead efforts to serve others each and every day. Pay it forward, one small act of kindness at a time. Hands-on activities and crafts for the whole family!

For the second year, there will be the GI Film Festival San Diego Military Family Pavilion. The Pavilion will include fun and engaging activities to build a sense of community and belonging for local military families, resource booths hosted by local military family support organizations, and serve as an inviting space that will encourage all attendees to interact and learn about each other as San Diego neighbors.

  • Enjoy story times, live music, and entertainment
  • And of course, visit with PBS KIDS’ beloved friends, Daniel Tiger and Katerina Kittycat!
  • All attendees will receive a KPBS KIDS giveaway, as well as resources on how to continue to serve as a community helper and caring neighbor!

There will be water stations. Driving, parking, and pedestrian directions will be provided in confirmation emails sent prior to the event.