
As more information about Holiday assistance programs becomes available, I will be updating this post.
Before I get into specifics, here are a few general ways that you can find some holiday help with resources that you may already take part in:
- If you receive WIC or SNAP benefits, check with your social worker to see if they have information on holiday-help programs.
- If you attend church/synagogue/mosque, check with your religious leader or the secretary/office staff. They may have referrals to programs offering holiday help.
- Check with your kids’ school. Talk to the school counselor, resource teacher, or school secretary.
- If you frequent local food charities or co-ops, they may have some resources on holiday events or toy giveaways.
Resources in San Diego County:
- The Salvation Army does an Angel Tree program to gather gifts for children in need. For more information about this program, contact your local Salvation Army location.
- 211 San Diego has a listing of all sorts of holiday assistance, from food to toys, and events- all free. Some programs/events require proof of need, but not all.
- Hope for San Diego helps with many non-profits throughout the holiday season. For more information on events they sponsor, visit their website.
- Women’s Resource Center for those residing in Northern San Diego County.
- Foundation for Developmental Disabilities: Clients of the Regional Center whose families are facing financial difficulties can apply for help.
- If you live in Santee and need help with food and gifts for the holiday, contact Santee Santas. Applications are done online and are available in multiple languages.
- Toys for Joy hosts an event in December with The Rock Church. There are not many details available on their website currently.
- Toys for Hope is hosting an event on 12/20 at King Chavez School. More info can be found here.
- Olive Crest: Helps Southern California families in need/crisis. They have a holiday program. More information can be found here.
Toy swaps are a great way to share old toys and get new ones.
- The City of La Mesa and I Love a Clean San Diego are hosting a toy and clothing swap 11/8/26.
- Porchlight Community Services is holding a toy swap 12/5/2026.
Talk Back: If you know of any additional resources for holiday help in San Diego County, please leave a comment!