
As more information about Holiday assistance programs becomes available, I will be updating this post.
Before I get into specifics, here are a few general ways that you can find some holiday help with resources that you may already take part in:
- If you receive WIC or SNAP benefits, check with your social worker to see if they have information on holiday-help programs.
- If you attend church/synagogue/mosque, check with your religious leader or the secretary/office staff. They may have referrals to programs offering holiday help.
- Check with your kids’ school. Talk to the school counselor, resource teacher, or school secretary.
- If you frequent local food charities or co-ops, they may have some resources on holiday events or toy giveaways.
Resources in San Diego County:
- The Salvation Army does an Angel Tree program to gather gifts for children in need. For more information about this program, contact your local Salvation Army location.
- 211 San Diego has a listing of all sorts of holiday assistance, from food to toys, and events- all free. Some programs/events require proof of need, but not all.
- Hope for San Diego helps with many non-profits throughout the holiday season. For more information on events they sponsor, visit their website.
- Women’s Resource Center for those residing in Northern San Diego County.
- Foundation for Developmental Disabilities: Clients of the Regional Center whose families are facing financial difficulties can apply for help.
- If you live in Santee and need help with food and gifts for the holiday, contact Santee Santas. Applications are done online and are available in multiple languages.
- Toys for Joy hosts an event in December with The Rock Church. There are not many details available on their website currently.
- Toys for Hope is hosting an event on 12/20 at King Chavez School. More info can be found here.
- Olive Crest: Helps Southern California families in need/crisis. They have a holiday program. More information can be found here.
Toy swaps are a great way to share old toys and get new ones.
- The City of La Mesa and I Love a Clean San Diego are hosting a toy and clothing swap 11/8/26.
- Porchlight Community Services is holding a toy swap 12/5/2026.
Talk Back: If you know of any additional resources for holiday help in San Diego County, please leave a comment!

I usually do these types of posts before Thanksgiving, but I’ve been looking for as many resources as possible to help those in need.
If you live in Santee and need help with food and gifts for the holiday, contact
2020 has been, quite frankly, a kick to the balls for so many of us. I’m posting holiday resources now, and I’ll be updating with as many other resources as I find them to help y’all out.
If you live in Santee and need help with food and gifts for the holiday, contact
Toys 4 Joy
If you don’t find any facilities near you offering free lunches, I recommend contacting 211, they may have more updated information.
And if you are in need of food for your entire family, but you find yourself not qualifying for
For those of you who have read my blog for a while, you know that food insecurity is a cause near and dear to my heart.


The Cameron YMCA is hosting a free
East County kids are invited to meet Santa, enjoy crafts and snacks with the Santee-Lakeside Elks Lodge on December 15th.
In Santee, Santee Santas and our local Chick-Fil-A have teamed up to “Stuff the truck” this Saturday, December 1st.
Here is what it looked like after I put in my donation. I picked up a package of wipes from Huggies at a bloggers summit a few weeks back. I hadn’t yet opened it, so I added it to the Blessing Box. I know that this box gets utilized by a lot of locals with great frequency. I will be back to add more groceries tonight.
It’s back… We’ve already been through a few areas, and Henry is itching for a big cuppa Cocoa from Starbucks and a ride in Miss Sally (my car) to go check out all the lights in ONE NIGHT!